Said individual blames the Womens Rights Movement on the death of chivalry.
She may be onto something. Really.
I have most recently been deep in conversation with my male and female trustees about this subject.
Seeking the rubric, also understanding the correlation between growing up in different parts of the country and the meeting/coupling rituals (and complete lack there of) Typical East Coast versus West Coast! Does this make sense? It certainly does if you are from one place and relocated to another.
The difference between dating men or women or both and how/where you grew up is so incredible telling and important. So many of the rituals and patterns are learned (some instinctual, naturally)
There are some very basic dating structures I require in order to pique and maintain my attention:
I consider you impolite if you do not open the door for me (every door)
It is rude to introduce me as a 'friend', I have a strong name that needs no other handle.
Offering to pay for things is always appreciated (knowing well that I would not feel comfortable. Yes the thought still counts.
Walking on the curb side of the street. Important.
It has been mentioned, that men sometimes feel as if they aren't needed so they find that casual equality in the day to day actions.
I do in fact pay my own bills, I have my own home and 2 careers and this does not mean I don't like my hand held... or receiving flowers when there is no occasion particular.
I am uneasily impressed. I am however easily pleased.
In the end I buy myself flowers for no particular occasion. I don't walk close to the curb side and I always introduce myself by my full name. I like men who desire to please women and in all fairness are rewarded by being treated like Kings.
